Meditation Monday | 10 Minute Guided Relaxation

Read along below, or get comfortable and press play on Spotify or YouTube.

Hello.

Today’s meditation is a guided relaxation exercise. I fell in love with meditation through guided relaxation.

As someone with high anxiety, relaxing didn’t come naturally to me. Having somebody walk me through with a calming soothing voice was very beneficial, and I hope it helps you too.

So let’s settle in.


Find a comfortable place to sit or lie down and let yourself settle into the body. Feel how heavy your legs are, the ground pulling you towards it. Gravity, safely holding you. Just let the bottom half of the body become so, so heavy. See how heavy your feet could feel.


Imagine they have concrete slippers on, but they’re so comfortable. There’s no pulling or aching, nothing required from your feet. Right now they’re just resting. And bring that heaviness up the legs. Let your calves relax. Let your shins be easy.


Let the top and the bottom part of your leg just be in space. See how much space you can feel in between. Find that spaciousness inside your calf. Let it be. And let the kneecaps be just in space where they are. No pulling, no lifting, no effort required.


Just here. And bring that sense of peace up into the thighs and the hips.
See if you can release any further tension in the hips. Are you holding onto anything here? Can you let just another piece of it go? Letting your muscles be easy. Let them stand by. There is nothing to be on guard for right now.

Just letting the whole leg be heavy in space and letting that heaviness rise now into the torso, the abdomen, letting the whole core of your being just be.


Let the muscles go. There’s nothing to support. Just let your body be held, held by the surface and the space around you, trusting that you can take this moment to deeply rest. See if you can find the breath in the body right now. Where do you feel it?


Is the air circulating in your stomach? Is your chest lifting just slightly with your breath? And do you feel the air at your nostrils? Cool and warm.

Just easy here. Following the breath like clouds in the sky. Just watching them. Watching the inhales and the exhales else. Letting the body be breathed and see where your arms are in space or your hands on your body or on the surface beneath you.


Can your hands get even more relaxed? Can you let even more tension go in your arms? Can you let your shoulders rest? Dropping away from the ears, not pulling, not forcing. Just easy. And see how heavy can your arms feel?


And bringing that relaxation up the neck, the back of the head. Can you let those muscles relax? Can you rest into the surface beneath you, behind you? Can you trust the surface to support you as you rest here?


And as you rest here, can your jaw soften just a bit more? Can your tongue fall into the base of your mouth? Your eyebrows dropping, your eyes not searching. Not straining. Just easy in their sockets. Can you let every little eye muscle relax?


Letting your cheekbones relax, letting your ears relax, feeling your forehead smooth away. Any worries? And just breathing here.


There’s no need to change the breath.


Just watching, like a lapping lake at the shore.

Can you find that inhale and exhale as it waves through your calm and relaxed body.

We’re just resting.


You can stay here as long as you’d like. You can even turn this off and go to sleep. Or if you’re ready to come back to your day,

You can give the fingers a little wiggle and give the toes, little wiggle. And perhaps roll the ankles and wrists just slightly, bringing some movement back to the arms and legs.

And we’ll take a couple deep inhales together before going back to our day, in through the nose and out through the mouth. Thanking yourself for taking this time to relax, to unwind. And one more deep inhale in and deep exhale out.


May this calmness and peace carry you throughout your day or send you off to sleep with sweet dreams.

Thank you so much for practicing with me.

With love,

Esta.

Yoga 101 | Do I Need to be Flexible to Do Yoga?

When you think of yoga – does a pretzel shaped person in stretchy pants appear in your mind?

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The true goal of yoga is linking breath and movement, and this requires zero flexibility.

The beauty of yoga is that it does increase your flexibility (& mobility!) with time and practise.

However, the ability to stand on one foot and bring your leg into a standing split isn’t needed.

(Although, Weird Barbie would be stellar at yoga if that WAS the goal.)

Yoga Poses are in fact, entirely made up – which means adjusting them to better suit your body isn’t blasphemous.

So yes, we can look at alignment and the possible variations of poses, but the true meter is your body.

Not every pose is good for, or even accessible to every body.

If it hurts – don’t do it.

If you need some support in balance poses – use a wall, or a block as you practise. 😊

Being present in your yoga practise prevents injury and tunes your ear to the body.

How does it respond to stress? Is this a stretch or does it hurt?

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If we keep the yoga pose goal as: breathing fully and exploring the mobility of each pose – you will get so much more out of the practise, than you would trying to yank or push your body into a position it doesn’t want to be in.

The weekly yoga pose breakdown here at WLE aims to decode the Sanskrit name and show you how the pose could look. It’s like learning a dance move a week. 💃🏽

Every Wednesday is a new #YPB Day – Yoga Pose Breakdown Day. 🎉 We keep it short and sweet with a video showing how to get in and out of the pose safely. We even get a little fancy and string a few poses together.

As you learn more and more poses or “dance moves” – you will find you can string together poses that you want or need, on your own!

As one final note – you don’t even need stretchy pants to do yoga. 🤫

Wear something comfy, slide off the couch as you watch your fav evening show – and try a few stretches! I’m sure you’ll like the results: better mobility & flexibility? Yes, please!

Wishing you an amazing weekend.

With Love,

Esta

Meditation Monday | The Grateful Morning

Feel free to read along below, or simply pop in a pair of headphones and listen on YouTube or Spotify!

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This week’s meditation is inspired by the Five Minute Journal.

Starting the day off with gratitude seems to help attract more reasons to be grateful throughout the day.

Let’s begin by settling into the body.

Resting the hands on the thighs, palms face up or face down, whatever calls to you today.

Sitting up just a little bit taller, feeling the ribcage lift up and away from the pelvis.

Take a deep breath in through the nose, and out through the mouth in a sigh.

Two more times like that, in through the nose and out the mouth. In – and out.

Let the breathing return to normal, and close the eyes or gaze softly at the ground in front of you.

Stand at the doorway of the mind, and ask it what you are grateful for.

What is one thing in this very moment, that brings you great joy. Great relief, great ease.

Savour this one thing, letting yourself smile to think on it.

See if you can expand this feeling now to a second item of gratitude. Keep it simple, let your mind answer reflexively – what’s a second thing you’re grateful for?

Finally, pick a third thing you’re happy about. Thankful for. Pleased as punch over.

Bask in that genuine well of joy within you.

Turning your attention now to the day ahead of you. (or afternoon, or evening – whenever this meditation finds you)

Ahead of you stretches some time. There will be demands on that time, but what are three things that YOU want to achieve in the next few hours?

What are three things you can do to fill your own cup, or check off a nagging task, or invest time in a habit you’re building.

To tap into more of the magic, refrain from “I will” statements as you list these three things out. Rephrase this list to the present tense: “I complete x”, “I invest my time in y”, “I make time to z”.

I’ll give you a moment to just breathe and reflect. Reflect on the gratitude list, and the action list.

Not changing the breath, just letting the body be breathed.

As we wrap this meditation up, we will pick a word to carry out into the day with us. Let’s make it our affirmation for the day – if you’re into it.

Let the mind complete the sentence “I am…”

I am calm. I am focused. I am present. I am playful. I am determined.

What word describes how YOU want to show up for this next stretch of time?

And with that, we give the fingers a little wiggle and the arms a little stretch.

Take a big deep breath and open the eyes with an exhale.

Keeping your gratitude list in one mental pocket, and the action list in the other – head off into the rest of your day with the intention and spirit of your own I am statement.

Thank you so much for practising with me, with love – Esta

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Start Here

a fresh new series created With Love: Back to School for Yoga & Meditation
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Ah, the fresh fall beginning. With kids backpacks and lunchbags now coming out of retirement, and the school season has officially begun – the blog post series here is going back to basics.

Let’s talk all things yoga and meditation, to set you up for success in building your own practise out. Whether you’re new to meditating but heard it might lower stress, or you’re hesitant to try yoga because you’re worried you might not be flexible enough – you’ve come to the right place!

Each week I am committed to bringing you a Guided Meditation, Yoga Pose Breakdown, and blog post like this – that will build out your knowledge of my two favourite subjects: yoga and meditation.

My favourite season is fall, because to me it always feels like a new beginning. It meant fresh sneakers and a new binder growing up.

The fall air in the morning reminds me to remain a student, to never be afraid to be new, be wrong, be imperfect. It reminds me, to start here.

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So, let’s start here:

What do you need to start a meditation practise?

What do you need to start a yoga practise?

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Getting started, is as simple as getting started.

The beauty of meditation & yoga is that both can be done anytime, anywhere, and you really don’t need anything.

My meditations and yoga pose breakdown series

aim to bring the starting line just a little bit closer for you.

Settle in for a moment and focus on your breathing. Tune into the sounds around you. Zone in on the body and the sensations available to you.

Boom – moment of meditation right there.

Slide off the couch while you’re watching an evening show, and stretch / try a couple yoga poses. Move around in them, inhale & rise, exhale & fall to add breath and movement in.

Boom – you’ve just practised yoga.

Yes, yoga and meditation can be approached with a deeply spiritual, or strict disciplined approach – but my approach is one With Love.

My approach is that yoga & meditation are accessible, easy to try & practise, and serve as tools that help you in your every day lifeand you can start where you are.

Now that you know what you need to get started, I’ll see you next week for our first “class”! 🍎✏️

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Thoughts with Love Series Conclusion

The Thoughts with Love series comes to a close with my self-interview, to give you an idea of what it is I am trying to do over here on this corner of the internet. I wanted to fill you in on what brought me to yoga and meditation – and share why I find these tools so important.

I’ve written out my introduction blurb below, in classic blog post style, but you can certainly just skip the reading and tune in to the interview below:

Thank you for tuning in. It really is an honour to share the tools that have helped me.

With Love, Esta


“Hello, my name is Esta, and I am a yoga and meditation teacher.

I started my meditation journey over 13 years ago now, and my yoga practise followed alongside.

What prompted me to begin these practises you might wonder?

It was panic attacks to be completely honest. As a teenager, I grappled with depression without really knowing about it. I figured anxiety was just a combo of working full time hours at a fast-food joint while I maintained an honour roll grade point average. Without addressing any of these flags, I carried on into my early twenties like this, until panic attacks knocked me right down.

I have acquired tools and resources over the past decade, that have brought me peace, resiliency, and the magical ability to live in the present moment. These tools came in the form of guided meditation, breathwork, CBT therapy, EMDR with a registered psychologist, yoga of all styles (hot yoga, hatha yoga, yin yoga, Yoga with Adrienne, Yoga with Tara Stiles, self directed yoga while listening to music etc.) and finally – completing my yoga teacher training.

I am a 200-hour certified yoga teacher, and all that means is that I completed 200 hours of study and physical asanas (yoga flows) with an accredited yoga teacher certification program. I completed my studies entirely online, with Uplifted Yoga – created by my yoga teacher: Brett Larkin. I talk about her plenty on my website withloveesta.ca if you want to learn more.

I am currently completing my 300 hour yoga teacher training, so I will have a collective 500 hours under my belt. As I deepen my studies, I am releasing a guided meditation, yoga pose breakdown and thoughtful blog post related to meditation/yoga/deep thoughts – each week.

I wanted to provide easy to access tools that help anyone begin a meditation practice. Starting with short guided relaxations, breathwork, and visualizations. We explore all kinds of meditation here!

The same goes for my yoga pose breakdowns. I wanted to provide a sort of library of poses that people can access on their own time, at their own pace, and come back to again and again. Once you learn the dance moves of yoga, you can start to choreograph your own flows – and you can customize the experience to stretch or strengthen whatever you’re focusing on now.

As for my Thoughts with Love blog post series, I have always been a writer. I can’t count the number of notebooks I’ve scribbled full. Writing has always been a way for me to organize and articulate my thoughts. This creative outlet is where I ponder meditation thoughts, string together ideas from books, bloggers, yoga teachers, and creatives alike, and just generally try to share uplifting ideas.

I will get into the interview questions now, thank you to everyone who dropped me a line for these, and a huge shout out to my husband for sitting down and hot seating me for the first draft!”


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So – now what?

I am wrapping up the Thoughts with Love series, as we wave goodbye to summer this long weekend.

As we head into back to school season, I am shifting back to the basics. 🍎

The weekly blog posts will continue, but they are shifting to FRIDAY publish dates, and will be more focused on the bare bones of meditation and yoga.

Wishing you a joy filled long weekend.

With Love,

Esta

Meditation Monday | Full Length Full Moon Meditation

Full Moons provide such a lovely time to reflect, relax and reset to factory settings!

This week’s guided meditation is a longer one, clocking in at around 13 minutes. So please settle in somewhere comfortable for it.

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My favourite is to lie on a yoga mat, with a pillow beneath my head and one under my knees. A weighted blanket on top is perfection, but a regular blanket will do nicely too.

Pop in a pair of headphones and tune in on YouTube or Spotify.

If you want to do the Full Moon Workbook that goes along with this meditation nicely, you can find it below.

Happy full mooning! 🌕

With Love, Esta

The workbook uses the Work Your Light Oracle Deck by Rebecca Campbell:

Follow the link above to purchase from my Amazon page! (As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases)
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Thoughts from Planning My Ideal Day

Thoughts with Love, a series.

Last week I mentioned I sat down and wrote out what my ideal day would look like. It was from this vision that I shaped my current day to day schedule, and it helped me define my priorities.

If you want to try this activity out too – you’re in luck! I’ve designed a one page worksheet to help you clarify your Ideal Day too.

So grab a favourite beverage, sit down someplace you will not be disturbed, and open your notebook or grab the worksheet I’ve designed, here.

Settle into your spot, make sure you’re comfortable and take a moment to become very present in this moment.

Take a deep breath in to the count of three, hold it for three seconds, and exhale to the count of seven. (If that isn’t comfortable for you, simply shorten or lengthen the amount of time I’ve suggested here – or skip the grounding exercise altogether.)

Try that a couple more times, and then close your eyes and visualize yourself waking up in the morning.

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It’s your ideal day. You are the best version of yourself. In your minds eye, or just as an imagination exercise – can you picture what kind of day the best version of you would have?

Get as detailed as you can.

What time is it?

What are you wearing?

What does your bed and room look like?

The key here is to state these details as facts.

 As though you already have incorporated and achieved your ideal day.

This is future you explaining to present you, what their day looks like.

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The worksheet will walk you through the below questions, or take your time imagining or writing them down for yourself:

For most of the day I feel: (try naming 3 adjectives, for example: energetic, lighthearted, present etc.)

EXAMPLE: I am present, playful, and open hearted.

The habits, activities, and hobbies I fill my time with are:

EXAMPLE: I get outside daily, I make time for personal yoga & meditation practise, I listen to my body.

My natural traits, strengths, and skills that I utilize & sharpen daily are:

EXAMPLE: I use my strengths of compassion and communication to connect with my peers. I am naturally organized and efficient, and I sharpen daily my skills of discipline and shaping personal habits.

The 3 ways I fill my own cup daily are: (these can be as simple as making your favourite beverage in the morning, spending 10 minutes meditating, doing your workout, journalling, listening to music. What makes you feel relieved to have done and you miss when you don’t do?)

EXAMPLE: I spend 20 minutes moving, meditating and reading each day. I fill my cup by caring for my body, mind and personal development.

Now take these ideals into your future.

How can you incorporate those habits now?

What traits, activities and adjectives define the Best Version of you?

Polish those up!

The world needs the best version of you, so take time to readjust your aim and place clear goals to aim at.

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I recently completed this journalling exercise for myself and developed a little daily checklist to aim at. The secret is to not get so caught up on checking every single box, every single day. Yes, that’s the ideal and the goal I am aiming for…

But my revelation here was that I can’t let an imperfect checkmark day get the best of me. Demotivate me into not checking off more tomorrow. No, there will be empty boxes on my habit tracker. But I started with three… way back in the day. Now I am up to six habits/routines/rituals that I have built into my day.

There are many ways to check in on yourself. I love the Level 10 Living method, and I try to do that one once a quarter. (I’ve linked an article from Shelby at Little Coffee Fox to break the Level 10 Life for you if you’ve not heard of it! Pinterest is full of ideas on this one too.)

Thank you for reading and or journalling along with me today.

Wishing you a beautiful weekend.

With Love,

Esta