Reasons to Try Meditation

Meditation has been gaining popularity over the past few years; here’s a list of reasons why you might consider trying it!

One might come to meditation to:

  • Reduce stress
  • Refine focus 🎯
  • Reset the breath / nervous system
  • Practice loving awareness 💞
  • Enrich the breathing
  • Experiment with self-discipline
  • Build a sense of peace and calm 🕊️
  • Take a pause from external stimuli
  • Enjoy nature as it is
  • Work the muscle of being present 🎁
  • Hear the voice of the true self
  • Meditate on a problem until the solution presents itself
  • Practice the Witness Mindset – stepping back to view the bigger picture 👀
  • Give yourself a physical time-out for an attitude adjustment / perspective shift (with loving kindness) ⏳
  • Meditate on a list of reasons you are grateful
  • Think on the traits you love about yourself – and which traits you want to lovingly release
  • Just for the moment: Drop the shoulders, unclench the jaw, relax the forehead
  • Improve one’s ability to act mindfully 🧠
  • Gaze lovingly into the eyes of your partner, patiently making eye contact through the nervous giggles until you are simply looking with tenderness into the other’s “windows to the soul”
  • Carve out a set moment in time to focus on just yourself
  • pray as a form of meditation, conversing with a Bigger Spirit
  • act as a microphone in a field, and just take in whatever noise is around – no judgement or labelling required 🎤
  • watch the thought landscape today and maybe pick out a pattern – being lovingly curious about the self
  • chant or practice affirmations / firing up the vocal chords and literally “vibing” differently
  • move, taking a walk as one meditates, meditating as one flows through yoga, or goes on a run or lifts weights, dances, dips into somatic movement, intuitively stretching … the list goes on
  • process grief, be it a loss of a loved one, a pet, a chapter in your life, an old version of you – just giving the time and space for “processing”
  • learn about the self – “how do I feel, why do I think this way, where did I learn this?” (with love) 🤔
  • relax deeply via Yoga Nidra / Guided Relaxation exercises
  • write it out, in a meditative state – translating thoughts to paper for us visual organizers
  • talk it out – whether on a voice note, with a friend over coffee, or in a therapist appointment – a meditation of sorts can take place here too 🗣️
  • meditate via music, allowing the mind to relax and be guided softly
  • relax the body and the mind before sleep 😴

This list is by no means exhaustive. There are so many reasons to meditate, and ways to do so!

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I hope today’s blog post gave you a bigger picture on meditation and what it could look like in your life.

Meditation has been the heaviest hitter in my mental health toolbox, with the physical, mental, emotional & psychological benefits overflowing into the rest of my life.

Learning myself, with love, and evolving with myself – with love… has been incredibly transformative for me. Which is why I am so fired up to share this tool with you!!! 🙏

The Beginner Meditator Class launched on Sunday March 10th 2024. 🙌

The 10 minute class is short and sweet, walks you through the basics of a meditation practice and then ends with a brief guided meditation to practice my 3️⃣ simple steps to meditation.

Once you own the class, it’s yours for keeps – so you can revisit it again and again.

Thank you for joining me for another blog post this week.

Wishing you the loveliest of weekends.

With Love,

Esta

Beginner Meditator Class

The Mini-Class is now LIVE. 🎉

It’s a 10 minute mini-class to set you up with the basics of meditation.

The first half of this mini class walks you through the meditation basics

Including: what do I do with my hands?!?

and… what if I can’t stop thinking?! 😓

The last half of the class is a guided meditation using the 3 steps we learn in the meditation basics.

The 10 minute mini-class is yours for keeps when you purchase it, so you can practice again & again!

You can explore the other classes available from me, or simply listen to a free Guided Meditation from the WLE Meditation Library – available both on Spotify and on YouTube:

Happy Meditating! 🙏

With Love,

Esta

Yoga: The Cheat Code

Alt Title: Yoga Gave me the CTRL+Shift+C to Life*
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Stepping back into “The Seat of Awareness” might sound like a complicated yogic pass time, but here’s a quick way to experience the essence of this idea and then use it in a practical way in your life:

Take a seat. Become aware of the body. How it feels. How it’s doing today. Checklist through the whole body: how are the feet, the calves, the knees and the thighs. How do the hips feel, the abdomen, the chest and shoulders. What do the shoulders, neck, head and face feel like? Just noticing.

Next become aware of the breath. Notice how the body moves with the inhales and exhales. See if you can “let the body be breathed” … trust the lungs to fill and empty naturally. Let yourself breath as slow and deep as you care to go today.

Thirdly, become aware of the thoughts and emotions. Let it be a brain dump of describing words, ideas, things you’ve beein pondering, or feelings you’ve been ignoring. Turn your attention directly towards the mind and it’s activity.

Once you’ve saturated in that mind activity for a moment – zoom out. Who was it that was witnessing the thoughts and emotions? Who is underneath the flurry of to do lists and expectations? Who is the witness?


When I was introduced to the idea that I am actually not my thoughts and feelings… was the day my world changed.

Not to be dramatic… but it was a real ah-ha moment for me.

My thoughts and feelings are like long standing computer codes in my system. They are built by my experiences of the world, my parent’s perspectives, the way my community behaves, the schooling I took in and the unique personal tint of my own worldview.

But it’s a worthy reminder, that I am not the codes themselves. I am the administrator. I am running the system. I am The Witness.

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Sometimes that means cleaning up old files… what programs are no longer serving me? What applications need updating?


Practicing zooming out, in my case using yoga and meditation, has strengthened my ability to act as the administrator.

I get less carried away with the program/emotion and am able to respond instead of react to life.

What a powerful cheat code, hey?


For those wondering about the “CTRL+Shift+C” reference in the title, I was being cheeky about a Sims cheat code.

But upon further review, in an application like Google Chrome, CTRL Shift C opens the “Developer Tools panel”… how perfectly fitting! 🤭

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Thank you for joining me for another blog post this week.

Wishing you a lovely weekend, and remember! The Beginner Meditator hits the WLE Classes page on Sunday! March 10th is our Daylight Savings spring forwards 🌷 and we do so armed with meditation tools. (Thank goodness! 😉)

With Love,

Esta

One Minute Meditation

A guided meditation for when you only have a minute.

(Available on YouTube & Spotify.)

One minute is good enough.

Come into the body by taking a few deep breaths.

In through the nose, and out the mouth as if you’re blowing out a candle.

Twice more on your own timing.

In … and out. 

In … and out.

Imagine the waters of your mind for a moment. 

The water is calm, peaceful.

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Allow yourself a moment of complete peace in the mind.

Take a deep breath to bring that calmness in through the rest of your day.

Available on YouTube & Spotify.

Thank you so much for practicing with me.

With Love,

Esta

The WLE Weekly | 03.02.2024

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The Magic Really is in the Showing Up

Alt Title: How My Yoga Every Day for 40 Days is Going

We talk a lot about “direct experience” in my Yoga Teacher Training, the idea that one can only teach from a direct experience especially.

My yoga practice every day for 40 days is a physical manifestation of that.

Teaching to myself in whatever form I show up in that day: motivated, unmotivated, tired, energetic or cranky has been a fantastic opportunity.

The other day as I practiced, I thought how the magic really is in the showing up.

When you take the time on your yoga mat, even just to stretch for a few minutes here and there… you are practicing coming back to the present moment… something that I think is both really important and very much lacking in today’s pace of life.

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You can practice along with me if you want! The mini-class is around 10 minutes long, ⏲️ is designed for the new yoga student, 🙏 and you get the class for keeps so you can practice again and again – from your own home! 🏡

As you read this, I am on day 15 of 40… but I did already make it to day 15 once before and had to start over when I missed one day! This self-discipline practice has been a lovely exercise so far, and the amount of days is the perfect chunk to solidify a new habit.

Speaking of a new habit…

The Beginner Meditator Class is set to launch soon too!

Circle your calendars for March 10th (Daylight Savings day AND a new mini-class made with love 🥰)

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The Beginner Meditator Course is designed much like the Beginner Yogi Course:

  • short & sweet
  • geared towards the new meditators and …
  • is an on-demand format so you can practice at your own pace, in your own space.

Thank you for joining me for another blog post this week.

Please drop your questions in the comments below, if you want to know more about either course!

Hope your weekend brings about opportunities to enjoy the present moment.

With Love,

Esta

The Passenger Commuter

I often meditated on my bus commute into downtown. This meditation was designed for the passenger commuter, or walker, and serves as a brief little check in and regulation.

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Give it a listen on Spotify or YouTube!

“No Pain, No Gain” Isn’t Welcome Here

How Yoga Helps You Know Your Body Better.

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Practicing yoga poses should always be done mindfully.

The goal is to connect movement and breath.

Every pose is entered and exited with care and attention.

With these goals in mind, yoga becomes a self-awareness practice.


One of the first things I tell a new yoga student is: “if it hurts – don’t do it!

Not every pose is good for every body. Different bodies have different limitations, and those limitations fluctuate from day to day. Always be listening to the muscles and the body.

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But wait … isn’t “going for the stretch” and “no pain, no gain” part of the workout mentality?

I would argue: not here. Not with yoga. Yes it’s nice, and I certainly do “go for the stretch” sometimes … but in combination with strengthening. In yoga we are always looking to balance back out.

Yoga can be thought of as a rebalancing tool.

It helps the body physically come back into alignment and brings the mind back into the body.


So how will you know when it’s a bad ouch?

Sharp, shooting pain will mean to immediately back off. 💥


Remember your practice is yours alone, so edit as you see fit!

As you practice tuning in and “hearing yourself out” – you will be developing a relationship with the self. Learning yourself better.

You will learn how your body responds, what it needs and when, and you will inuitively begin to work with the body – instead of against it!

Cool, huh? If you’re fired up and ready to practice – check out the free #YPB – Yoga Pose Breakdown Library. This is a page of my website that holds all the yoga pose breakdowns I have published so far. Each video is only a couple minutes long and walks you through just one yoga pose. You’ll know the Sanskrit and English name, as well as how to get in and out of the pose, by the end of the bite-size lesson!

If you’re wanting more, choose a class from the WLE Classes page. They’re $5 each, each mini-class is 3-10 minutes long, and you get the link for keeps so you can practice the class again and again! Don’t see a class there that you want? Submit a request for your own custom mini-class at the bottom of the page!

Thank you for joining me for another blog post.

Wishing you a sunny weekend. 🌞

With Love,

Esta