40 DAY KRIYA | with Love

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BREATHE with Love | 5 Minute ‘Relax Me’ Meditation

Quick Meditation Break: Relax Your Mind in 5 Minutes

Take a short break, to relax the body, breath & mind in this guided meditation.

My goal with this 5 minute guided meditation, is to help you relax completely in a short period of time.

Find a comfortable place to sit or lie down, and then hit play.

All you have to do is listen along.

Relax Me” Meditation

“Take a moment to get comfortable.

Maybe you’re seated on a chair, on the floor, or perhaps lying down on a couch, bed or mat.

Go with your intuition, what do you need today?”

Guided meditations are a simple and effective way to reap the benefits of a meditation practice1. 🙏

Explore various styles and build a meditation practice that works for you!

The BREATHE with Love library on YouTube & Spotify is a great place to start. 😎

Listen along on Youtube:

& Spotify – or wherever you listen to podcasts!🎙

️Thank you so much for tuning in to another BREATHE with Love Guided Meditation.

See you next month for another episode.

With so much Love,

Esta

  1. The benefits of meditation is something I have written about before:
    Why Meditate?” – 02/04/2023
    Reasons to Try Meditation” – 03/15/2024
    and “Multitasking Meditation” – 01/15/2023 ↩︎

Good-bye June – Hello July!

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How to Have a Panic Attack

Step-by-Step Guide for Managing Panic Attacks

TW: Discussing personal experience with anxiety and panic attacks

This month’s guided meditation was from a special place in my heart.

As someone who has experienced panic attacks, I empathize deeply with anyone going through them.


This post title is a little cheeky, but that’s just to grab your attention.

I have been and always will be, a mental health advocate1.


The National Institute of Mental Health estimates that 4.7% of U.S. citizens will experience panic attacks in their life.

And the WHO estimated 301 million people globally had an anxiety disorder in 2019.

The Mayo Clinic aptly describes my worst fear of a panic attack: having another one.

One of the worst things about panic attacks is the intense fear that you’ll have another one. You may fear having panic attacks so much that you avoid certain situations where they may occur.

Source: Mayo Clinic article.

Mayo Clinic lists the below as some of the symptoms of a panic attack:

  • Sense of impending doom or danger
  • Fear of loss of control or death
  • Rapid, pounding heart rate
  • Sweating / hot flashes
  • Trembling or shaking / chills
  • Shortness of breath or tightness in your throat
  • Nausea / Abdominal cramping
  • Chest pain or headache
  • Dizziness, lightheadedness or faintness

So, here is my “step by step guide” to having a panic attack:

  1. The fist step is to NOTICE. Recognize that the body is having a “someone pulled the fire alarm” moment. It’s not a “bad” or “faulty” body – it’s just a false alarm. It’s here that I make the pivotal decision to accept this panic attack. I’ve survived them before, and I will again. This will pass.
  2. I would take this noticing a step further, and take note of my “symptoms“. Name them all. Focus on the body for a moment. If I can get up and move – removing myself from the current situation – that’s ideal. Shake it out.
  3. I feel like it’s a little silly to be told to breathe in the midst of a panic attack. So heavens. Just do your best. Get air in babe. Let it out too. Imagine you’re a dear friend, and you’re talking them through it. Give that same love and grace to yourself.

I made a meditation walking you through the steps, so you can just pop some headphones in and listen along. You can listen on YouTube or Spotify… or wherever you listen to podcasts.

I’m under @withloveesta on all platforms!


take a few deeper breaths

tune into the body

moving as much or as little as we want

ground into the present moment

zoom out a little, this too shall pass

pace or walk

notice our surroundings & colours

take note of sounds & smells


Thank you for tuning in for these Thoughts with Love on Panic Attacks.

I am happy to report I haven’t had a panic attack in a long, long time.

I think implementing the below really did help me! Maybe they could help you too??

  • yoga & meditation
  • walking, biking, jogging
  • getting fresh air every day
  • a gratitude journal
  • talking to a psychologist; EMDR
  • taking my prescribed SSRI’s

Please see footnote for resources for mental health.

With so much love,

Esta

  1. Please know you are not alone, and there are resources.
    Check out this page from Mental Health Resources Canada to get started.
    If you are in crisis, call or text 988 or visit Get Help 💕 ↩︎
DISCLAIMER

Please note, this blog is not a replacement for medical advice. While I do touch on topics of mental health, I am only sharing from my own direct experience.

Always speak to your healthcare professional if you are experiencing anxiety or depression.

The tools and results I share, are of course, deeply personal. What works for me, may not work for you. I am simply sharing my experiences here on this corner of the internet.

Thank you for reading and joining in! Please leave me a comment or reach out to withloveesta@gmail.com if you have questions or concerns.

BREATHE with Love | Through a Panic Attack…

Overcome Panic Attacks with Movement and Meditation

This was the toughest meditation for me to create, so far. It’s likely because it means the most to me!

My aim with this 5 minute guided meditation, is to share tools that helped me through my own panic attacks.1

It doesn’t require sitting still, in fact movement & walking / pacing are encouraged!

DISCLAIMER

I am not a mental healthcare expert. I am simply sharing from my experience.

If you are experiencing panic attacks, I do encourage you to speak to your health care professional.

Or seek out other tools & resources.

This guided meditation walks through a few tools I found helpful when dealing with panic attacks. 👉

  • take a few deeper breaths
  • tune into the body
  • moving as much or as little as we want
  • ground into the present moment
  • zoom out a little, this too shall pass
  • pace or walk
  • notice our surroundings & colours
  • take note of sounds & smells

and… a super advanced technique to end. 😉

Listen along on Youtube:

& Spotify – or wherever you listen to podcasts!🎙

️Thank you so much for tuning in to another BREATHE with Love Guided Meditation.

I hope these tools help you too!

With so much Love,

Esta

  1. For background: I started experiencing panic attacks one summer about 13 years ago now. I am happy to say I haven’t had one in a very long time. However, this is likely thanks to my seeking out a therapist. She led me through the usual talk therapy, but also introduced me to EMDR. I have used it ever since. Alongside therapy, I took up yoga, meditation and walking. All of which improved my life very much! ↩︎

Anyone Else Coming Back to Life this Month?

These longer, sunnier days sure have my spirits sparkly again! ✨ HBU??

I hope May was good to you. 💌

This month we tried a longer “Choose Your Own Adventureguided sleep meditation. 😴

The GFDF with Love recipe was my own beloved burger recipe. 🍔

The cleaning bug bit, so we printed off the DECLUTTER with Love printable… and made a donation to our local Value Village ASAP!

BREATHE with Love | CYOA Guided Relaxation

Choose Your Dream Scene: Relaxation for Deep Sleep

This guided relaxation was designed to walk you through a dreamscape of your own choosing. ✨

listen on Spotify or  listen on YouTube.
 listen on Spotify or listen on YouTube.
listen on Spotify listen on YouTube.

Starting off with a full body relaxationyoga nidra style. We check in to all areas of the body, relax them completely… and then listen along for the choose your own adventure scene. 💭

The meditation then tapers off to simply music and white noise, so you can drift off to sleep. 😴

Which one did you like best??? I would love to know!!!

GFDF with Love | We Have Burgers at Home

Easy Gluten-Free Burger Recipe in 25 Minutes

15 minute prep time | 10 minute cook time | 25 mins ’til eating

Gluten is often found in pre-made burger patties, where it’s used as a binder or filler.

Make your own so you know exactly what’s in them!

Join the GFDF_withlove club on Instagram for more gluten and dairy free goodness!

I just shared 13 slides of “what’s on my #glutenfreedairyfree plate 🍽️ 👀”

With Love Club | DECLUTTER with Love

Start Decluttering: Essential Checklist – FREE download

How to Use this Worksheet:

Pick a category, and then one checkbox, and collect all your owned items from that one checkbox.

Pick up each individual item, and reflect if this item is loved, useful, or necessary.

If it is: return it to it’s home.

If it isn’t… thank it for it’s service in your life thus far, and put it in a bag / box

Read the 1 minute read of an article, and download your free printable here.


MOVE with Love |technical difficulties ⚡️

Regretfully there is no yoga flow this month. Planning something extra sweet for next month! 😘

See you next month for the monthly:

 free BREATHE with Love – guided meditation

free MOVE with Love – yoga pose or mini-flow

free PRINTABLE/ worksheet with love

free GF DF with Love recipe / meal idea / product highlight

I love hearing from you!

Leave me your thoughts in the comments below. 💬

With Love,

Esta

everything must be done with love.